I’ve decided to dismantle this blog.
Why? I just don’t have enough time to update it.
My interests have also shifted since starting it, so if I make time for another blog, it won’t be about online dating. I had fun working for a paper with a local dating site for three years, but I think it’s time to move on.
I’d like to thank the 1000 or so unique visitors I’ve received since starting it. Also, to everyone whose emailed me, you’ve made it interesting. If you need advice, I’d suggest you …

After running The Stranger’s Lovelab and Lustlab online dating and kinky dating sites for over three years, I have met hundreds of members and one thing that never ceases to amaze me is how much better online daters are in person. I know that this statement runs counter to what you’ve heard about people commonly misrepresenting themselves online.
While there are people out there who post pictures of themselves as a shaggy-haired virile 24-year-old, while they sit at their computer as a matured and shiny-headed 40-something, my experience is that this …